Within the overall IT community as well as GIS community there are a number of pushes for “inclusion”. Increasing the number of women, LGBTQ, minorities (both racial and religious) at these events so they can learn, network and help the diversity within our fields and industries grow. This blog post is not intended to belittle these initiatives nor comment on the progress that is being made. With that being said, lets hit the meat.
Its no secret that I’m a single father, and I have moved to a place that is isolated from the larger parts of my community. As such, when I heard FOSS4G-NA was going to be in Raleigh, I made plans to go. The biggest issue was my daughter. She took the week off school, and we loaded up the Edge and drove up from Fort Myers. I had an artcamp lined up and a baby sitter for a couple of the nights so I could continue to network and enjoy more of the conference.
OR how this should read is
I’m lucky enough to have a job where I can throw money at a huge hurdle for me to come to an “inclusive” conference.
Within the US alone, there are 25 million children (around 35%) are living in single parent households. Of these, there are about 12 Million single parents (80% female and 20% male). So, we’re talking about 3% if the overall population. Which doesn’t seem like a bunch, but its the same size as ALL the non-christian faith’s put together (Jews, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists).
Few single parents are a lucky as I am, they juggle work and kids, and their work isn’t flexible. Most of the people i know who I told I was bringing my kid along said “Oh thats Tough” or just “Wow” — I KNOW RIGHT.
This shouldn’t be an issue, we have a well developed child care system in the US and I’m sure there are plenty of providers out there, or hell, LOCAL GEOGRAPHY TEACHERS, who might like to make a couple of extra bucks and during a poster session or a planned networking meet up, use one of the breakout rooms to teach the kids a thing or two, or just let them watch some general milktoast film. Just to allow the single parent 2 hours to network and talk with peers. But its overlooked, discarded — and why is that….
Because most single parents don’t come with their kids so their voice isn’t heard. Because there are these barriers to entry that are, frankly, too great. And honestly, if I was STARVING for interaction with my community, I would have blow this conference off as well. “Man I’d love to go to that and present all the cool stuff I’m doing, but what about the kid.”
This is a problem that we already have the pieces to solve.
1970: “Why is that woman at this conference”
1990: “Ugh, there is that gay, they shouldn’t come to this event.”
2016 OH at FOSS4G: “Who would bring their kid to this.”
So, to wrap up this entry, I didn’t feel included. I felt like I could attend part of the conference, but not the whole thing. Those 6 hours a day I could get to, I did like, but until something changes, I’m pretty sure this is going to be my last FOSS4G.
Also,
Let me give MASSIVE props to the ESRI UC Team for their Map Camp and all the family friendly events they have in San Diego. Way to go guys, you nail it.
Also, big ups to the people who did interact with my daughter. You cats are stellar.










